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ChangeoPhobia .....wat?????
Thursday, October 24, 2013.

At some point of life, we will have to face certain occasions where adaptation skills come into place. The thing is, are u going to change yourself to be better fitted in a new environment? or sticking back to your own self, hiding in your own comfort zone?

In my own opinion, the main point is never about changing yourself to fit into a group of friends. 
Its that different kind of personality each and everyone portrays that makes the group uniquely fun.
Since change is something unavoidable, dont be afraid of it. 
who knows what will come next if you dont try? As long as you've weigh the benefits and drawbacks of your action.
even if it fails you, KEEP TRYING !
well, i failed a couple of times....who cares....? coz i know i will one day get there =)

yes, i do admit its never easy to mingle around a bunch of friends, especially in a big group.
and ive always admire those people who are all-year-round A HAPPY PERSON who is able to cheer everyone up =) who doesnt want to be that way?
its just like... what if life could be simpler, all friends could be true and money falls freely from the sky.....
TOTALLY IMPOSSIBLE!
anyways, im still working on myself....
and im never giving up...=)
i know my mistakes....
something like....
Keep complaining here but not doing any real actions to mend something wrong about me.
but trust me....im working very hard towards it and a better self.
im just hoping that one day....ill live up to whom ive always respected and admire.=)
Cheers! for a better self =)

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友谊
Sunday, October 13, 2013.

四年了, 我问了问自己“你当初的遗憾, 弥补了吗?”
回想起当初在高中的我, 只在乎学业与团体。却从未把友谊放为前提。
因为我懂我家境不富裕,只能靠自己争取一些机会, 让自己得奖学金。
当然,这些年里,交的真心朋友不会多。懂自己的朋友更不多。
时不时会有一些不满我的人在怂恿其他人远离我。
对!我就是那么无情, 公事公办, 一副紧绷的脸。
我可说就算我不讲话也会得罪不少人。
不过我从不在乎。 只要我做完我该完成的东西, 正正确确地完成每一件事, 就满足了。

毕业后, 才恍然大悟地发现我最大的遗憾是较少了许多朋友,做少了许多应做得无聊事。
平常人应在班上犯的错, 应玩的东西, 我一点也没接触过。
说真的,我永远也弥补不回这种遗憾。

也因为了解了这份遗憾,我慢慢改变了自己。
我懂了交朋友。呵呵,好像很了不起。
后来才发现。
交友, 其实不简单。
现在的友谊没有中学时期的那份单纯。我后悔了。也知道自己太迟了。

友谊,对我而言,就算不说话,不见面,也会在背后默默支持对方,为对方挺身而出。
我不是一个多话的人, 也不喜欢说朋友的坏话。
我抚心自问对每一位正真的朋友都出于真心。
会把他们当作自己亲人一样宠爱, 一样关心。
我不多话。也不会讲废话。
可是我会在你开心时,为你开心。
当你伤心时,我可能不会说什么甜言蜜语去哄你开心,可是我一定会陪在你身旁和你一起哭。
单纯的友谊,不需要计较, 不需要每一次看对方的脸色做人,不需要隐瞒,不需要伪装。
更容不下一次又一次在其他人背后说自己的不是。
对我而言,是非是一些不懂得珍惜友谊的人散发的。
我只能说时间能证明一切。
对一个不相信自己的朋友做出再多的解释, 再多的辩护, 也无补于事。

四年了,女性朋友的确不多。
原因?
可能是因为我们都对“友谊”这两个字有着不同的定义吧。
我不怪他们。
如果说, 你有一位真正朋友的形象在无意中一次又一次地被你刚认识的朋友诬蔑了,你会为他辩驳,挽回他的形象,继续地相信他,还是。。你会选择相信这位刚认识的朋友, 与他一起说你这位认识已久的朋友的是非呢? 
我不介意别人的无理推论,别人的误解,别人的做作,别人的虚伪。
可是,当我发现,有那么一位要好,又值得信任的朋友,宁愿相信其他人所说的话都不相信我时,这当下的感觉, 真的有如一把尖锐的刀向自己胸口狠狠的插了过去。
回想起自己是那么的真诚对待这份友谊,那么的赴汤渡火, 我真的觉得自己很笨。
曾经对对方的体谅,道歉,却因一次又一次的背叛变得全无价值。
这教训了我,不是每一段友谊都是发之内心。
虚伪的友情到处皆是。 
你对人好,不一定别人也对你一样。
况且有了疤痕的友谊永远弥补不了。

在女生们的世界,
似乎少不了是非。
无论你做什么,有心人一定能把事情扭曲成是非。
我不能让自己做一个我不喜欢的人。如果有一天,你发现了我慢慢开始变成上述所说的人,请你一定一定要告诉我。

相反的, 男生,爽快直接。
少说是非,多废话。
就算他们多拉塔,多粗心,他们对自己的那份友谊,总算是真的。因为他们会挺你。

真心地想在此谢谢几位好友, 男的也好,女的更好。
因为无论发生什么事情, 他们都会无条件地听我诉,相信我, 明白我,谅解我。 
you know who you are =) 谢谢你们的宽恕,体谅与信任。 
知己不需多。几个真心的就够了。


-终于体验了虚假的友情- 












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Claim herself to be street smart.Mysterious and Passionate.Loves exploring her limitations by trying out new things.Difficulties? NAH! one can never read from her appearance.time and sincerity is the key. may look joyous but secure a fragile heart.*smackface*


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Listening rather than talking
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Do a bunch of crazy and random things before she dies cuzzzzz there's just ONE LIFE to live!
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