Chat with God....at leisure.....

A good fren of mine sent me a rather interesting e mail and i would like to share it with all the rest of the ppl out there who are alwayz complaining about life......check this out....may be you'll realize something that u've been long searching for....

God: Hello. Did you call me?
Me: Called you? No. Who is this?

God: This is GOD. I heard your prayers. So I thought I will chat.
Me: I do pray. Just makes me feel good. I am actually busy now.
I am in the midst of something.

God: What are you busy at? Ants are busy too.
Me: Don't know. But I can't find free time.
Life has become hectic. It's rush hour all the time.

God: Sure. Activity gets you busy. But productivity gets you results.
Activity consumes time. Productivity frees it.
Me: I understand. But I still can't figure out. By the way,
I was not expecting YOU to buzz me on instant messaging chat.
God: Well, I wanted to resolve your fight for time,
by giving you some clarity. In this net era,
I wanted to reach you through the medium
you are comfortable with.
Me: Tell me, why has life become complicated now?
God: Stop analyzing life. Just live it.
Analysis is what makes it complicated.

Me: Why are we then constantly unhappy?
God: Your today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday.
You are worrying because you are analyzing.
Worrying has become your habit.
That's why you are not happy.
Me: But how can we not worry when there is so much uncertainty?
God: Uncertainty is inevitable, but worrying is optional.

Me: But then, there is so much pain due to uncertainty...
God: Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.

Me: If suffering is optional, why do good people always suffer?
God: Diamond cannot be polished without friction.
Gold cannot be purified without fire.
Good people go through trials, but don't suffer.
With that experience their life become better, not bitter.

Me: You mean to say such experience is useful?
God: Yes. In every term, Experience is a hard teacher.
She gives the test first and the lessons afterwards.

Me: But still, why should we go through such tests?
Why can't we be free from problems?
God: Problems are
*P*urposeful
*R*oadblocks
*O*ffering
*B*eneficial
*L*essons to
*E*nhance
*M*ental
*S*trength.
Inner strength comes from struggle and endurance,
not when you are free from problems.

Me: Frankly in the midst of so many problems,
we don't know where we are heading...
God: If you look outside you will not know where you are heading.
Look inside.
Looking outside, you dream.
Looking inside, you awaken.
Eyes provide sight.
Heart provides insight.

Me: Sometimes not succeeding fast seems to hurt more than
moving in the right direction. What should I do?
God: Success is a measure as decided by others.
Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you.
Knowing the road ahead is more satisfying than
knowing you role ahead.
You work with the compass.
Let others work with the clock.

Me: In tough times, how do you stay motivated?
God: Always look at how far you have come rather than
how far you have to go.
Always count your blessing, not what you are missing.

Me: What surprises you about people?
God: When they suffer they ask, "why me?"
When they prosper, they never ask "Why me?"
Everyone wishes to have truth on their side,
but few want to be on the side of the truth.

Me: Sometimes I ask, who am I, why am I here.
I can't get the answer.
God: Seek not to find who you are,
but to determine who you want to be.
Stop looking for a purpose as to why you are here.
Create it.
Life is not a process of discovery,
but a process of creation.

Me: How can I get the best out of life?
God: Face your past without regret.
Handle your present with confidence.
Prepare for the future without fear.

Me: One last question.
Sometimes I feel my prayers are not answered.
God: There are no uanswered prayers.
At times the answer is NO.

Me: Thank you for this wonderful chat.
I am so happy to start the New Day with a new sense of inspiration.
God: Well.
Keep the faith and drop the fear.
Don't believe your doubts and doubt your beliefs.
Life is a mystery to solve, not a problem to resolve.
Trust me.
Life is wonderful if you know how to live.

give me time to prove you wrong!

我很肥么???????
y every body keep on saying that i'm FAT???????????
S!@#$%%^!!!!
u noe....sometimes...when one "compliment" is repeated more than once...
its comsidered to be an offence....to someone here like me....
i noe i'm fat.....PLS STOP REMINDING ME OF THAT!!!!
IT WILL JUST HURT ME EVEN MORE!!!!!
its INSULTING me ......A LOT!!!!
肥是无罪的！！！！
i'm tyring hard already ppl...juz give me sometime!!!!
juz give me time to prove my determination...
i'm sure one day i will be FIT and SLIM....
so....during this period.....would you mind to keep your mouth shut for a while????

If

If you can keep your head when all about you

Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;

If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,

But make allowance for their doubting too;

If you can wait and not be tired of waiting,

Or being lied about dont deal in lies,

Or being hated dont give way to hating,

And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;

If you can think-and not make thoughts your aim;

If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster

And treat those two impostors just the same;

If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken

Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,

Or watch things you gave your life to, broken

And stoop and build'em up with worn-out tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings

And risk it on one turn of pitch-and toss,

And lose, and start again at your beginnings

And never breathe a word about your loss;

If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew

To serve your turn long after they are gone,

And so hold on when there is nothing in you

Except the Will which says to them :" Hold on!!!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,

Or walk with Kings-nor lose the common touch;

If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;

If all men count on with you, but none too much;

With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,

Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,

And- which is more-you'll be a Man, my son!

-Rudyard Kipling-

i juz wish to tell you that i'm afraid that i have change.....but perhaps a positive one......

i'm not the one you once knew.....but perhaps a better me you'll find....

-Ji ching-

未知数。。。。。。

往往做很多事情。。
很多决定都身不由己。。。。
很想开始。。。。
却没勇气去接受结果。。。
因为未来。。。根本就是不知数。。。
现在好。。。不一定未来好。。。。
现在拥有。。。不一定以后也拥有。。。。
不想失望。。所以不敢期望。。。。
不想失去。。。。所以不选择拥有。。。。。

爸爸说。。。千万不要谈恋爱。。。
因为。。。我应该为我的前途着想。。。
一旦开始了。。。就无法专心读书。。。。
开始时。。当然会开心。。。甜蜜。。。。
但一旦到结束时。。。我一定无法承受那种痛苦。。。

爸爸。。。我想告诉你。。。。
那种痛我早已“领教”过了。。。
对。。没错。。。是很痛。。。。但有一句话说得好。。。
欲强越强。。。。。
但当然。。。领教过那种痛的我。。。
再也不敢再次全心全力地去爱一个人。。。。
因为。。。我实在无力再一次承受那种折磨。。。

我一直想。。。。
如果真的开始了一段感情。。。。
我的学业会受影响吗？？？
这又是另一个未知数。。。。

God's Surprise.......

i've alwayz been planning to pay a visit to The New Horizon this coming holiday...
i'm juz missing the children too much.....
they seem to be a part of me.....
last night ....mom told me that she bought a stack of cards....
sold by the Autism Support Association For Parents, IPoh....
obviously ...its for charity purposes....to help the autism children..
well...i din really pay much attention on wat my mom told me...
thinking that it was juz another ordinary card seller / cards...nothing special.....( i thought)..
to my dismay......i woke up today and found the cards to be one of my student's master piece...
i really got a shock of my life.....
God plan this in some way......i knew it....
remember a post i've written this early 2009???
its about a letter drawn by my student (Gavin Ooi) to me.....???
its him again now.....
i somehow feels that god had sent his regards to me again....
in his very special way....i'm touched....
my gosh!!! i miss you all too much...
i'm GOING BACK TO SEE YOU!!!!!
at least ONCE this holiday....
miss you GAVIN......

Jiching's Secret Recipe # unlimited bonus#

I shall start THis POst witH a SometHIng GrEeN:)

Hmmmm...i should improve on its presentation next time...sorry guys...i still need a room for improvement....


NOW THIS IS SUPER DELICIOUS>>>>My 招牌汤~~Herbal Soup!!!

Chicken Rice

In the Pot.....when it is Hot

Oat + Mixture of Eggs + Sugar.......with bread.....

Freshly made Garlic paste spreaded on Gardenia Bread as Dinner....WOHOO!!

Guess wat is this????? Innovation......i bet you wont drink it....but a warm advice to you is that...

DUN JUDGE A pOT of SOUP by Its AppeArANCE....it may turn out to be a good one....

Erm...the drum stick is special in its own way.....dun look down in simple dishes..hehehe..

now this is not something nice until it gets a splash of ( look below)

THIS!!!!!YUMMY!!!!

END PRODUCT!!!! :) AS scrumptious as ever!!!

secret recipe is our onli entertainment.....

chocolate indulgence, cheese choc, durian durian and .......forgot.......
Jun Ying......my housemate:)

Me and My Son

Daddy son mommy>???

Padini Concept Modelling scene.......private and confidential........heheeh...